Although I’m not an extrovert person, spending time with people I enjoy really fuels my energy ad makes me happy. When you find people in your life who “enjoy you,” it’s important to hold them and never let go.
I’m grateful that I still have great friends from childhood even though we don’t see each other often. But at the time we catch up, it feels like no time has passed. I’m happiest when I spend quality time with my people laughing, letting loose, and getting away from daily routine.
Happy people often have people that support them. Some have strong family ties, and some have a network of friends. It’s not about how many people around you, but about having a few people you can rely on in hard times.
The bond that connects you with your family is made of respect and joy. If you were not blessed enough to have a family to support you, go out and create your own. Gather friends who make you feel good.
Once you have good people in your life, nurture your relationships. We all agree that it’s a lot easier to lose a friend than to make one. Keep in touch with your loved ones, offer sympathy and encouragement and don’t call them only if you need something or you are looking for support. Make time for your friends and schedule them on your calendar.
It’s also a good idea to invite your friends or family members to do something specific that you know they would enjoy and don’t just ask to hang out together, which can make them less likely to accept. And if they do want to hang out but don’t want to do the activity you proposed, they’ll likely accept with a different idea, which still giving you a chance to hang out.
Another good idea to have better connections with people around you is by giving to them. Giving to others can enrich your life and give you a feeling of purpose. Whether you donate time or money. This way you’re not only helping others have a better life, but also helping yourself have a better life too. Many people say that pending money on others usually makes them happier than spending that money on themselves. You can donate services too like walking the dog for your sick friend, visiting an elderly neighbor or helping a friend prepare for a family occasion can all increase your sense of well-being.
Do five small acts of kindness a day and record how you feel afterward. Open the door for an elderly person, give change to a homeless person, say please and thank you and feed a stray dog. Small acts of kindness don’t require much time or effort but can make a better world for both you and the recipients.
Don’t wait for happiness to come to you and create your own moments and memories and share it with the people you love.
This article sounds like it was written by someone trying too hard to be deep and meaningful… Just let people live their lives instead of handing out relationship advice like candy.
While I appreciate the idea of nurturing friendships, it seems overly simplistic to suggest that happiness can just be cultivated through social interactions. Life is much more complex than just surrounding yourself with people.
I completely disagree! Having a support system is crucial, and the article emphasizes the importance of meaningful connections. It’s not all about superficial interactions.
You both seem to miss the point! The author talks about quality time with people who lift you up, which is vital for mental health. You can’t dismiss that!
“Make time for your friends”—easier said than done in today’s fast-paced world! But honestly, this post serves as a great reminder that we need to prioritize our loved ones.
The advice here is quite insightful but seems a bit unrealistic. Not everyone has the luxury of time or energy to dedicate towards maintaining multiple friendships like suggested.
@Harrison Dennis It’s not about being perfect; even small efforts count. You might find it uplifting once you try it, but I get your point—it does sound like a lot sometimes!
“Gather friends who make you feel good”—what a refreshing thought! This article is spot on; investing in relationships can truly enhance our lives and bring happiness!
@Wendy Thompson Haha, right? Maybe we need an app for friendship scheduling too! But hey, at least you’re prioritizing your social life!